It is nice not having an agenda this afternoon. I feel as if Monet and I have been going 'flat-chat' since last Wednesday. For me to be tapping away on my father's computer and Monet to be lying on her Granddad's big comfortable armchair watching some children's programs is a good thing. Trust me.
Don't get me wrong, we've had a terrific time seeing familiar faces.
Early Sunday afternoon, I drove us down to Melbourne. We stayed at our good friends, who lived literally up the road from where we lived 18 months ago in South Melbourne, so we were in old territory. And it was lovely. But I don't miss it. Not at all in fact.
John and Suzy were very happy to see us and welcomed us into their quaint little townhouse, like it was only yesterday that we lived down the road. John made sure I sampled some of his home made brew (very 'hoppy') and he is becoming quite the expert on brewing his own beer. It was quite nice and it was a pity that Lyndon was not there. (He and John are good mates!)
Monet was quite excited on the prospect of caching a tram into the city center, so we did. We ventured in, rugged up against Melbourne's cool winter weather. We went to a new bar which had recently been opened on the Yarra River, just under Federation Square. I have no idea what the bar is called but when I say it was very Melbourne, I mean just that. We sat outside under big black umbrellas with gs heaters pumping warmth onto our faces. We met a few other old friends there (Heidi, Pat, Anna and Trav) which was really nice. But we all missed Lyndon of course but he was there in spirit (and Monet is so much like a mini-Lyndon it's not funny!)
Monet honestly had a terrific time being pampered by everyone else as we sat and downed our glasses of beers (water for Monet of course!) When the gas ran out of the heaters (the bar had about 20-odd of these gas heaters and because they were literally on 'full-bore' they slowly began to run out of gas bottles!), we ventured up to (another) bar in Federation Square. Yes, we enjoy our drink and enjoy the company of one another. And Monet is so 'bar-savvy' there was no complaining or whinging or crying or grumpiness. She was a model-child. Everyone said so. *heehee*
When we finally left the city at 9pm, to return to John and Suzy's, Monet fell asleep in the taxi and never woke until 7:30 the next morning. It is hard work entertaining everyone and being that model child.
Monday morning saw Monet and I bid goodbye you our friends and ventured over to the other side of the city to my girlfriend and her two daughters. I met Kristen through my South Melbourne Mother's Group and her and her husband recently built a home in Point Cook where they now live. It was lovely to see her there, out of the confines of the small apartment they once lived in, in inner city. (My old apartment block was opposite that of hers.) Her daughter, Eden, who is Monet's age greeted us with such excitement it was wonderful to see. Our two little girls are growing up so quickly it was good to see them playing (and eating) together, like they did 18 months ago when we lived close by.
Monet and I drove back to my parents place on Monday afternoon, exhausted. Simply exhausted. It took a big sleep in yesterday and a day of doing nothing to recover from our 'catching-up'.
The next few days will be basically unplanned, popping in to see Lyndon's parents most days but basically spending time here with my parents.
It is bloody hard work having a holiday like this. Trying to divide your time between people who all say
"we want to see you!" and having a relaxing holiday is not easy. And being away from Lyndon, whom Monet and I are both missing. Sometimes I have to take a step back and 'enjoy the moment'.
I have taken many photos of our 'holiday' so far and will be sure to post some for you loyal readers next week, when we are back home... But we still have another holiday to be had before then, as we are meeting Lyndon in Brisbane city on Sunday for 4 days, and we're looking forward to that! (And for all you folk not living in Australia, Brisbane is basically halfway between Melbourne and Cairns. A 2-hour plane journey from each city.)